That’s Not Love: It’s Codependency
“I can’t stop thinking about her.” “I’m just so OBSESSED with him.” “I can’t live without her!” While these statements can seem endearing on the surface, in a particular context, these phrases can be evidence codependency. I often encounter individuals grappling with the subtle yet intricate web of relationship codependency. In session, as we explored […]
Forgiveness: A Crucial Principle to a Healthy Life
Forgiveness is tricky because we hear we’re “supposed to forgive”. On the other hand, we hear “I have a right to how I feel.” This post will not be about telling you why you must forgive but rather what you lose out on if you don’t. Then you can decide for yourself if it is […]
The Back-to-School Blues: How to Embrace Change
The Back to School Blues: How to Embrace Change Summer is winding down, and school is back in session. For many, this season signifies change and let’s face it, change can be scary. Change can suggest instability, the unknown, and unpredictability. However, it is said that change is the only constant, so shouldn’t we be […]
Toxic Traits of Perfectionism and How to Improve Part. 2
Toxic Perfectionism Part 2 Perfectionism can take a toll on one’s life mentally, emotionally, and relationally. Part 1 of this blog series discussed the toxic traits of perfectionism, their effects on the individual and those around them. These traits include being highly critical of yourself and others, habitually seeking out mistakes, downward spiraling when expectations […]
Therapy Vs. Coaching: What’s the Difference and How to Decide Your Best Fit
Do you know the difference between a therapist and a coach? In exploring the helping world, it can be complicated to know where to start or which direction to go. Take these two scenarios below and see where you may fit in: In one scenario, you’re at a place in your life where you realize […]